- ensure safety,
- reduce conflict,
- build cooperation, and
- protect children and encourage healthy relationships.
Family Law cases must be about the needs of the children and not a contest between parents. It is likely that a good result for you is possible only if you work for a good result for the children involved.
If there is a risk of violence immediately contact the police, child protective services, or the victim’s assistance.
- Case Captioning shall use the terms Wife/Husband/Mother/Father or Putative Father. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(B).
- In dissolution of marriage or legal separation cases the Summons shall be substantially the same as Form D or D-1.
- In paternity cases, when filed by a mother or putative father, the Summons shall be substantially the same as Form E.
- Parents, in the dissolution of marriage, must complete www.UptoParents.org and view the videos “Welcome” “Divorce” “Domestic Violence” “Joint Legal Custody” “Parenting Plan Worksheet” and “Attorney Pledge” on this website within 15 days of initial filing or service of process (SOP). Form A* must be filed within 20 days of initial filing or SOP to verify compliance. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(1). Parents shall merge or exchange web work and submit Agreed Commitments to the Court. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(4).
- Parents, in a legal separation, must complete www.WhileweHeal.org and view the videos as in no. 4 within 15 days of initial filing or SOP. Form A* must be filed within 20 days of initial filing or service to verify compliance. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(2). Parents shall merge or exchange web work and submit Agreed Commitments to the Court. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(4).
- Parents, in paternity cases, must complete www.ProudtoParent.org and view the videos “Welcome” “Paternity” “Domestic Violence” “Joint Legal Custody” “Parenting Plan Worksheet” and “Attorney Pledge” within 15 days of initial filing or service. Form B* must be filed within 20 days of initial filing or service to verify compliance. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(3). Parents shall merge or exchange web work and submit Agreed Commitments to the Court. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(4).
- All parents must attend Transparenting in the dissolution of marriage/legal separation cases after filing or upon adjudication in paternity cases. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(F).
- Prior to Initial or Provisional hearing parents shall meet with one another in a good-faith attempt to resolve all matters unless safety or other good cause makes such meeting unreasonable. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(D).
- Parents shall prepare and submit an Agreed Parenting Plan or portions agreed/disagreed upon. Parenting Plan Form C. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(G). If parents have not reached a full agreement, at a minimum the parents should exchange their proposed Parenting Plans two days prior to the hearing.
- After the original filing, before filing a motion, other pleadings, or before a court hearing the parties shall have a conference [LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(H)(1)&(2)] and provide a statement confirming compliance. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(H)(3).
- Parties should attempt reasonable cooperative measures such as co-parenting classes, counseling, mediation, and other problem-solving processes before resorting to court. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(C).
- If a hearing is held more than a year since the parents’ completion of the website work, they should redo the work. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(E)(5) Commentary.
- Custody evaluations, including GAL appointments, will not occur until all other cooperative measures have been exhausted or an explanation of why such measures have not or will not work has been provided. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(I).
- Disrespectful language and behavior (abusive language or offensive tactics) are not appropriate. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(C)(2) and Commentary.
- Parties that pursue the path of conflict instead of cooperation are not acting in the best interest of the children and the court should take such tactics into consideration when making decisions. LR20-FL00-CVFL-5(C)(2) and Commentary.
* Compliance Form found at www.ElkhartFamilyLaw.gov may be used in place of Form A and B.
Protecting your children is likely your light out of anger and hurt. There is a good guiding light almost all parents can use; that is, do what is best for your children. Parents who build peace, courtesy, and cooperation for their children are the ones who can use their money and emotional resources to build a better future rather than arguing the past.