Family Attorneys’ Pledge of Cooperation
Family Attorneys’ Pledge of Cooperation Recognizing that families involved in family law litigation will be served best by solutions that build cooperation and protect children, the undersigned attorneys pledge as follows.
1. We will constantly test the propriety of our words and advocacy by whether they can be expected to serve the healthy and child-focused cooperation of parents and other family members. We will educate our clients that in most cases family members will either win together or lose together and that success must be gauged by achieving solutions serving the best interests of all family members.
2. We will ensure that our clients fully understand their legal duty and personal interest in observing the letter and spirit of all court orders.
3. Knowing that clients will often follow our lead, we will consistently practice and model courtesy with all persons, including clients, family members, courts, and fellow counsel.
4. We will work cooperatively with our colleagues and the courts. On request, we will voluntarily trade all relevant and discoverable information in our cases. We will accommodate procedural requests that do no harm to our clients’ best interests. We will not mislead any court, party, or attorney.
Consult with fellow counsel to find the best ways to protect all family members, including any children who may have suffered or witnessed any violence or abuse.
7. Because litigation can damage relationships and polarize family members, we will make every reasonable effort to avoid filings, custody evaluations, and hearings, including by:
Whenever possible, consulting with fellow counsel to attempt cooperative resolutions before filing pleadings or scheduling hearings.
8. We will refer our clients to counseling, mediation, or other assistance we believe could help them improve their relationships and the healthy functioning of their families.
10. We will work in our cases, in our professional associations, and in our public statements to develop a culture of cooperation in all family cases. We will give a copy of this Pledge to (and discuss it with) all clients in dissolution and paternity cases and in any other cases involving conflict between family members. We will educate the public, fellow counsel, and professionals from other fields about the urgency of, and many opportunities for, cooperative problem-solving in family cases.